Live and work in multiple states My husband and I are thinking of creating a…

Live and work in multiple states
My husband and I are thinking of creating a Living Trust and Living Will. We have a business and residence in one state and residence in another. We have children and grandchildren in both states as well as parents on one side in one of those states and parents on another side in yet another state that would all benefit from the trust/will. From what we have seen, we have to choose a specific state. What do WE do since we have multiple states?

What rights do we have?

What rights do we have?
I have three sisters whom live far apart. My father was just put in a nursing home. My sister who lives in the same town has been his sole care taker. She took upon herself to clean out his old apartment (without our knowledge) and distrubute amongst her children. She feels that she took care of him….she deserves it. Dad wants the items sorted out between his daughters. In Dad’s will he has only a few important items listed. Are the household items considered part of the estate? Without a living will what rights do my sisters and I have to be entitled to his belongings?