Spouse Overseas I am currently overseas in the military and husband is civilian…

Spouse Overseas
I am currently overseas in the military and husband is civilian living in the US. We we married April 2002 and we have been seperated since July 2002. I have filed for divorce and he has been served by sheriff. However, he is not contesting to the divorce anymore. We have no kids, no property and no finances together.

According to the divorce summons, if he does not respond in 30 days then I win by default. If I am not available to attend the hearing due to job, may I have a family member represent me in court for the default with a general power of attorney?

Powers of Attorney & Will 1.

Powers of Attorney & Will
1. Do I need a laywer to create a Durable Power of Attorney for Health Care; General Power of Attorney & Designation of Guardian; and Executor of an Estate?

2. Can I official file these documents with a state agency, so that it is all official?

3. How do I give my child legal guardianship over me as I aging and not comfortable with paying my own bills, or preparing my own food? What state agency would assist in making this official and legal?

4. Can I write a simple will although all of my real estate property (land survey of boundaries) is not completely in order? My husband died without a will and now my 2 children have 1/3 stake in the property. Can I write a simple will that states that I will my property and possessions to my 2 living children equally 50/50?